When I am talking to somebody there are always two conversations going on. The first is on the surface; it is about politics or music or whatever it is our mouths are saying. The other is beneath the surface, on the level of the heart, and my heart is either communicating that I either like the person I'm talking to or I don't. God wants both conversations to be true. That is we are supposed to speak the truth in love. If both conversations are not true, God is not involved in the exchange, we are on our own, and on our own we will lead people astray
–Donald Miller, Blue Like Jazz
Rebekah Diaddigo 